Welcoming a new baby into your family is a joyful and life-changing experience — and if you already have pets, it’s natural to wonder how they’ll cope with the arrival of a little one. With thoughtful preparation and gradual introductions, you can help your dog or cat adjust, settle well, and continue to enjoy a happy life alongside your baby.
Start Preparing Early
Preparation begins before the baby arrives. The more time your pets have to get used to upcoming changes, the smoother the transition will be.
- Basic obedience matters — If you haven’t already, enrol your dog in basic training before the baby comes. Skills like sit, down, stay, and calm greetings make life much easier once routines get busier.
- Introduce new sights and sounds — Babies bring unfamiliar sounds (crying, cooing) and smells. In the weeks before birth, play gentle recordings of baby sounds at low volume and let your pets explore new equipment like strollers, bassinets, and toys. Treats and praise help your pets associate these new things with positive experiences.
- Manage scent exposure — Using baby lotion or powder around your pets and letting them sniff baby clothing or blankets helps them learn the new scent before your newborn arrives home.
- Socialisation with children — If your dog is not already socialised with children, take opportunities to visit friends with kids. Keep interactions supervised and positive — this builds confidence and reduces stress.
- Give pets their own space — Teach your dog or cat about boundaries and safe spaces. Crate training or designated resting areas can give them a quiet retreat when household activity increases.
Adjust Routines Gradually
About 8 weeks before your due date.
- Begin reducing the amount of time you spend with your pets before baby arrives so they don’t associate a sudden drop in attention with the newborn’s arrival.
- Provide enrichment like puzzle toys, KONGs, and supervised play to help pets self-entertain while you’re busy.
The First Meeting
When it’s time to bring your baby home:
- Have someone take your dogs for a walk so they’re calm and relaxed.
- Bring a blanket that smells like home for the baby — scent is important.
- Greet pets first so they aren’t overwhelmed when the baby arrives.
- Introduce your pets to the baby slowly, one at a time, on a leash if needed.
- Let pets approach at their own pace, sniffing from a safe distance.
- Reward calm, curious behaviour with praise and treats.
Keep It Positive
Positive associations are key. Reward your pets when they show calm interest in your baby — this helps them link good things with the new member of the household.
- Never force interactions
• Keep initial meetings short
• Provide pets with reassuring attention and routine
Supervision and Safety
Always supervise interactions between pets and babies. Even well-behaved animals may become startled or unsure in new situations. If your pet shows persistent stress or unwanted behaviours (hissing, growling, tension), consider consulting a qualified animal behaviourist — ideally one with professional credentials. You can find a list of COAPE Qualified behaviourists here.
With patience, consistency, and positive training, your pets can learn to adapt to your growing family. The important thing is not just that they meet your baby, but how they do it — calmly, positively, and with your support.
Your pets and your baby can coexist happily — and with the right preparation, there’s no reason for new family life to be anything but joyful.
